You Create Your World
We can never count on much from other people, at least not when it comes to things that we are supposed to be able to do for ourselves. We bring into our lives everything we see and feel and know, and we do it with our thoughts and the energy behind those thoughts.
The Universal Law of Manifestation...you own brand of Magic
I have this friend to whom I refer as being the "Snarky Puppy." Her name is Melody Fletcher. She is the Goddess of Gettin', but is not prone to being one of those types who will tell you what you want to hear, even though she sorta is. I know that seems a bit confusing, but if you have half a working brain cell in your head then you already know that what you think about and focus on the most is what appears in your life. Anyhow, after having studied her blog posts, and after having communicated back and forth with her over the last two years, albeit somewhat sporadically (Hey, she IS the Goddess of Gettin'...), I have learned and come to realize that what we are being told by all of these ...gurus...and what is the truth of the Law of Manifestation as well as how it truly works...well, we shall say that because of Melody's blog, her teachings and such, there are more people on this planet who understand the energy that is required for this law to work in our favor.
What it means for this law to work in our favor.
The one thing that I do not want anyone reading this to think is that what you think about is the actuality of what you will receive. The Universe does not work that way. Where it is that the lessons in anything are to be learned, nothing trumps learning. In fact, while it is that you might get what you want initially, the truth will come to be in the reality later on, when what it was that you asked for is not all that you thought it would be. This could be anything at all, seriously.
When I say "for this law to work in our favor," I do NOT mean that what you see in your mind's eyes is the absolute thing that you will have. Again, while you might get exactly that one thing, if it is not the thing that will be "this or better" in any situation, you can think of that one thing as being the appetizer before the meal. The reason is because when we are talking about the machinations of energy, we are talking about our vibration and where it is that there is not only the right energy, but also the other side with the not-so-great energy. This is where the fun stuff starts. When we say we want ...I don't know...say, a pet shark, and we get that pet shark, and all the while we thought that we would have the greatest most coolest pet in the world, when we got the damned shark, we found out a whole lot about a shark that maybe we didn't know before.
Like the fact that most sharks are predators, and that your pet might like to try you dipped in batter and served with ranch dressing. While we are thinking about how cool it would be to have a pet shark, we only thought about what it would be like to tell people that we have a shark, that our shark can eat your pit bull, and that if anyone would like to test that theory out, we would be happy to do that for them. We do all this thinking about how cool it would be to have what we want and do so without the idea that it is a shark, that it can and will eat us, that it would take the pit bull to get into the water for us to have this really ridiculous land animal versus wild water predator sort of thing happen.
When we are thinking about what it is that we want, we are not thinking completely, and this is when and where the Universal Law of Manifestation needs to be given in terms that are sharks and dogs.
A Band called Led Zeppelin
If anyone wants to know how they came up with the name "Led Zeppelin," the answer, in sort of okay terms is easy. When they were naming themselves, I think the story is that they came up with an idea for the genre style of music they would play and one of them uttered that it would sink and "go down like a lead Zeppelin."
You know...the Zeppelin? Big giant air filled aircraft that people know about, too? Don't take me on my word because it was something told to me by someone else, but I will admit to thinking that I believe I am right with this thought. Anyway, that is neither here nor there. The idea that this band at the time in history that they came to be is very much odds stacked against them.
Yet, here we are in the here and the now and my kids love them, and my kids are the age where they should be loving ...well, anything BUT my music.
These guys, because I also know all about their Spiritual energy, totally knew back then what only a handful of us knows now, and that is that they just never lost focus. (Okay, so ...they might have lost focus from time to time but TOTALLY not the way that I am writing about them now haha...anyhow...)
The way that they came to be Led Zeppelin is the way that anyone does anything...focus, thought and NEVER attaching themselves to any perceived outcome. Period. That is the way that this manifestation thing works and is the way that a lot of our joys and sorrows come into being. We make it that way. We are who creates our own lives and our realities. We like blaming other people for what is in our lives, but the truth is that we can neither blame nor glorify anyone or anything but our very selves and it is because the truth is that first we think it, then it happens. Maybe not that fast, because anything worth having, no matter what freakin' guru said what to you, no matter which one of those guys tells anyone at all that the way to do things is that you think it and you get what you want...that only works for things like parking spaces at the mall on Christmas Eve (maybe). To get to where they are now - total rock music deities in the truest sense of the word - it took them work, focus and most of all, belief.
Belief
Belief is a funny thing, and it is something that every Pisces know is our forte'. We live in the ocean called Belief and it is the one thing that both fortifies and cripples us at the same time. We want what we want, and we attach ourselves to the outcome we want to see, and most of the time, as far as a Pisces is concerned, we are not really that ready to see both sides of the coin. (Of course, some of us are very evolved and yep...it took us a whole hell of a lot of tears, acceptance, things that suck and hurt us badly, to get to the point where we are now...just sayin'...)
In order to believe something at all, most unevolved human type beings speak it out of their mouths thinking that because they merely said it and breathed energy into it, that it is just gonna be.
Ummmm....nope.
The truth is that we NEVER get what we want all the time, and most of the time, we get what we both want AND need. Let me repeat that...most of the time we get what we both want and need, and when that happens, what we thought we wanted will pale in comparison to the thing that we focused on. What a lot of people fail to realize is that Spirit only has our best interest at heart, and the thing that we are focusing on should always and ONLY be thought of as a symbol of the energy behind that one thing. It can be anything at all. It can be a job, a relationship, a new car, a new place to live...anything at all, whatever it is, what we think about and focus on the most is, for the most part, what we receive. NOW, the fun part...yeah...right...fun...is learning to NOT attach ourselves to the actual picture in our minds. Understand now that the picture that we hold in our heads, our hearts and our soul might not be the exact thing that we get, but if we believe we are deserved of that same energy and that that energy was good to us and for us, the manifestation of whatever it symbolized and stood for to anyone at all is the thing that will come to us.
The Things That Come to Us
Don't get all ass hurt over the idea that what you "see" with your focused and unbiased mind's eyes will be the very and exact thing that you will receive. We only receive the reciprocating energy to that thought. In other words, yes, we think about it, yes, we are given signs and symbolic signals that tells us we are on the path we are meant to be for that one manifestation. However, and again, Spirit does not ever give us anything that we do not need, and when we get what we do not want, it is because we focused on what we did not want more than we focused on what we knew we needed and desired.
What we desire is beautiful, of course, and sometimes what we get is not what we wanted. This is because when you focus on the part of the manifestation that is the part that tells us "I want and deserve this BUT..., we end up with the but part. It is because our energy is confused. We are telling Spirit with our mouths what we think we want via the mouth, and our Ego is telling us that it won't happen, even while our Soul is singing praises and glorifying the thing that we know we deserve.
We know we each deserve Love,the job we want to have, the house, the car, the everything, and we focus on the one thing or person that we think will be the thing that we want and will make us happy, without regard to what also might happen that we might not like. This is irresponsible thinking. This is setting ourselves up for more heartache. This is our not listening to our souls and instead listening to our egos in that we are believing everything that we don't want to believe. When we believe that things should be only one way, that is not taking into account everyone or everything else who and that we want involved in this. We cannot mess with the free will of other people. It doesn't work that way. When we feel like we have to talk anyone, even ourselves, into anything, that is NOT the Law of Manifestation at work. That is our being manipulative little twits and behaving as though we know better than does Spirit.
We do not know better than Spirit, even though we should know better than our Ego wants us to believe we do. Spirit knows exactly what we need, and our Egos know what we want, and altogether in a strange and cosmic way we pull energy from both sides of us and with the help of Spirit, we get what we need, and always it is much better than what we thought we want.
It's the Thought that counts...
Seriously, it is the thought and the energy behind the thought, also known as the intention, that counts. We can no sooner get a million dollars through the million dollar fairy if we are not willing to be the million dollar fairy. We can no sooner have the love in our lives there with us if we are not willing to see things from both our own side as well as the ones who we are focused on. We can no sooner have the great job we want if we are too focused on what we do not have in so far as job skills are concerned.
Pretty basically, when it comes to the Universal Law of Manifestation, do not forget that when you focus, focus on what you want, after you have thought about things and know for sure what that thing is, don't forget that what you focus on is symbolic, and pretty much...that's about it.
Remember, too, that you will, if you don't practice the focus thing, get what you want and what you do not want. We all already know what we do not want.
How about we focus on what we DO want and see what happens then?
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The Universal Law of Attitude
It is our Attitude which dictates our perception
It's not what is outside of us that matters as much as how we feel about what is outside of us which directs and dictates how our lives appear to be, and more, what we manifest within our lives.
Really, it isn't anyone else who is making your life feel like it does. It is your attitude about things
I used to hear it a lot, that I have an attitude problem. These days, though, I have honed that terrible ugliness of bad energy into something more of a balance between rock and roll bad girl (bad girl, but in a very good way) and "nice girls don't do that" (in a very, very good rock and roll bad girl way) and somehow, I make it work. This is not only the way that people see me, and I must admit that only a few years ago I showed one way, but was not the way that I needed to be. It is also very well the way that I truly am and, as well, it is also my very and actual attitude in life.
By "attitude in life" I mean that somewhere between the rocker bad girl and the angelic good girl, there is a balance which affects the way that I perceive things to be. There is a balance between the light and the shadow within me. It was not always like this, though. It was not a long time ago that I pandered more to the shadow within me, gave more credence and listened more to what was not the only truth of me. The problem for me was not that I wore what I thought I was on my sleeve but more that I did not realize that I was not what other people were telling me that I was. I was told all the time that I had an attitude, and so it became who I was. I wore it so well that it began to become who I was, and from that point on and up until about 6 years ago, I was a very, gigantically, egotistically and arrogantly inclined idiot. Why would I say such ugly things about my very self?
Because it is the truth. My attitude, and my "tude," were the things that colored my world. They dictated who I was, and more, how I approached things, namely things that I didn't much like, namely about other people. It didn't dawn on me that what my attitude was doing was bringing me more negativity, was bringing me an unneeded reason to bitch. I had an opinion about everything, and that opinion was rarely ever a good one. When I could see a wreck, so to speak, I was not willing to see, too, that maybe the wreck was indicative of a change that needed to happen, and that the wreck was meant as a symbol of that energy. I must credit my two closest girlfriends, April and Dannie, as well as my Auntie Kalei for their part in making me know that who I was was so not what I was extending in terms of energetic or real reality.
Auntie Kalei...She taught me, without being too harshly direct about it - that is, until she felt she had to be - that what goes on outside of me is not the reality and that the reality of things was going to be different for everyone. Other people were not going to see things the way that I did or do, just like I will also not see things the way that other people do. When you feel like you have to be right, even when you are wrong (and have to try to justify what you think is right about your wrongness) and you and your ego have to make a noise about it, and you and your ego are the only ones who believe that you are right and are not being an ass about things, this is called anything but the right attitude.
The Right Attitude
Please - don't get me wrong, having the ability toward having the right attitude is not something that you can just change. I don't care which hippie metaphysical new age guru tells you that all you have to do is simply change your thought about a thing - it is not that easy. Changing one's attitude means that we have to have a new way of thinking about a thing, a new way of processing what we believe is the truth of a thing, especially when, deep down inside, we know otherwise. It is the ego that tells us to keep on fighting to be right because we have to change the way that other people think in order for us to feel better about anything at all.
It is not that easy to change your way of thinking, not when you have it in you to continue to be an ass hat about some things, and not when you think that other people have to do what you expected them to do on your behalf. We can no sooner change what other people believe or how they feel about anything. We can only change the way that we feel and can only change our own attitude about things. THIS TAKES TIME AND A LOT OF PRACTICE. The practice part comes to us in the manner that is other people disagreeing with us and not being in favor of our ways if our ways and our beliefs do not match their end result. When people begin to realize that it is not the end result that matters as much as what it took anyone to get to those results is when we will realize that all along we were not all within our own right-mindedness, not anywhere near outside of the whims of the ego's belief that who we are, what we want, what we do...basically anything, really...depends on what someone else does that we feel they should be doing for US rather than what we do for our very selves.
When people do not agree with what we know is best for ourselves, and they forget that there are other people on the planet and they do not recognize that maybe what it is that they are doing is seriously going about things in the wrong manner and with only the ego's wants, needs and desires (or perhaps what the ego believes what those things are...I promise, cookies...it is not what you want or what your ego thinks it wants but what is BEST FOR ALL PARTIES INVOLVED...reread that...wait...I will write it again for you in terms that anyone with half a brain can understand.....YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU FIRST AND WITHOUT YOUR EGO GETTING IN THE WAY EVEN IF WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO AND MORE, WHAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH SEEMS TO SUCK...there....get it now?).
We...me...you...that guy over there who always seems like he has his finger up his nose....we ALL need to take heed to the idea that our lives are colored by our attitudes. Our lives are made up of all the same things, but it is our perception of our lives and what we think about it in terms of our attitude toward the things happening within the confines of "ourselves" that makes us be constantly negative or positive, that makes us believe that if we don't have this, that or the other in our lives that our lives with suck. It rarely occurs to us that maybe the thing that we think we need so much was only meant to be there as a lesson, only there to bring to the surface what needs to be learned by us and was only there temporarily. NOW, you can take this in any manner and you can think that I am pointing at you directly and revealing to the world the very unquiet sins that you don't realize you are giving to us all, or you can knock your crap off and take a good, longer than normal look at yourself and realize, right now, that it has been YOU who has been torturing you and not someone else. (Yup...I said it - DEAL WITH IT)
It is your attitude that makes people love you or want nothing to do with you. It is the weightiness of the expectations of things that you have already attached yourself to that is making you feel like you do at this moment and NOT NOT NOT anyone else. It is your attitude about things and your own chosen inability to NOT see things from someone else's point of view that makes you hurt. It is you who is directing all of this energy outward through your own attitude. Our attitude is based in our ego, believe it or not, because our ego (rising sign in astrology) is our "game face' and is what the world sees us as an offering to it of who and what we really are.
"...but Rox...why is this so? Why are you picking on me? WHY? WHY? WHY?"
...yeah yeah...oh woe is you...I ain't pickin' on you, but you are the only one who really feels that way. When someone else points out what is our trip and what is makin' us trip out about a lot of things, it is at that point when you might want to do like I suggest and check yourself before you wreck yourself. No one thinks about it when they are in mid-ego driven dog crap mode that the desired outcome that you alone have super-glued yourself and your attitude to is what is making you nutty, is making you feel like you have to manipulate and coerce and do things that may or may not make things better, thereby leaving you, your ego and your soul open and vulnerable to whatever it is that you think you will not get. What you will not get, if you continue to attach yourself the the outcome that you want versus the outcome that is needed is what this blog is about...okay, it is actually about the way that your perception of things is making you have a crappy attitude about things. Keep reading...
When we loan our own negative energies to things and we think that what we see at the end of our lessons is what it is that we will end up with, and we attach ourselves to it, and it doesn't happen the way that we pushed for it to happen is when our attitude changes for the worse. It takes more than only one time for us to encounter as many "duh moments" that we encounter that we end up experiencing and which breaks us down and makes us look at who we have been in relation to what is going on at any given moment. The way that we perceive what is happening, and the way that we allow our ego to "protect" us (making us look like jack asses in the process when we are not able to let things go and LEARN) is shown to the world as our attitude, or, our game face (again, rising sign in astrology...grow up - we are not only all about our sun signs, Loves...not at all...wanna know more? HIT ME UP!).
If this blog post seems a little more filled with my actual attitude, I promise, you are better at this learning thing that you think you are...my proof is that you can feel me coming through at ya loud, like so many guitar riffs comin' at ya live through the speakers in your Soul.
Yup...it's like that, really. Change your attitude about things. Detach yourself from the outcome that you want and allow the better outcome to be yours. If you change your attitude and you allow it and not your freakin' big fat ego to be who and what guides you, you can't lose.
In fact, your outcome might be better than you expected. You might find out that what you thought you wanted was only a symbol of the actuality and that the perceived outcome cannot compare to what you have in reality.
What you have in reality is You...and no one can touch that.
Only You
I LOVE YOU ALL !!
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It's not what is outside of us that matters as much as how we feel about what is outside of us which directs and dictates how our lives appear to be, and more, what we manifest within our lives.
Really, it isn't anyone else who is making your life feel like it does. It is your attitude about things
I used to hear it a lot, that I have an attitude problem. These days, though, I have honed that terrible ugliness of bad energy into something more of a balance between rock and roll bad girl (bad girl, but in a very good way) and "nice girls don't do that" (in a very, very good rock and roll bad girl way) and somehow, I make it work. This is not only the way that people see me, and I must admit that only a few years ago I showed one way, but was not the way that I needed to be. It is also very well the way that I truly am and, as well, it is also my very and actual attitude in life.
By "attitude in life" I mean that somewhere between the rocker bad girl and the angelic good girl, there is a balance which affects the way that I perceive things to be. There is a balance between the light and the shadow within me. It was not always like this, though. It was not a long time ago that I pandered more to the shadow within me, gave more credence and listened more to what was not the only truth of me. The problem for me was not that I wore what I thought I was on my sleeve but more that I did not realize that I was not what other people were telling me that I was. I was told all the time that I had an attitude, and so it became who I was. I wore it so well that it began to become who I was, and from that point on and up until about 6 years ago, I was a very, gigantically, egotistically and arrogantly inclined idiot. Why would I say such ugly things about my very self?
Because it is the truth. My attitude, and my "tude," were the things that colored my world. They dictated who I was, and more, how I approached things, namely things that I didn't much like, namely about other people. It didn't dawn on me that what my attitude was doing was bringing me more negativity, was bringing me an unneeded reason to bitch. I had an opinion about everything, and that opinion was rarely ever a good one. When I could see a wreck, so to speak, I was not willing to see, too, that maybe the wreck was indicative of a change that needed to happen, and that the wreck was meant as a symbol of that energy. I must credit my two closest girlfriends, April and Dannie, as well as my Auntie Kalei for their part in making me know that who I was was so not what I was extending in terms of energetic or real reality.
Auntie Kalei...She taught me, without being too harshly direct about it - that is, until she felt she had to be - that what goes on outside of me is not the reality and that the reality of things was going to be different for everyone. Other people were not going to see things the way that I did or do, just like I will also not see things the way that other people do. When you feel like you have to be right, even when you are wrong (and have to try to justify what you think is right about your wrongness) and you and your ego have to make a noise about it, and you and your ego are the only ones who believe that you are right and are not being an ass about things, this is called anything but the right attitude.
The Right Attitude
Please - don't get me wrong, having the ability toward having the right attitude is not something that you can just change. I don't care which hippie metaphysical new age guru tells you that all you have to do is simply change your thought about a thing - it is not that easy. Changing one's attitude means that we have to have a new way of thinking about a thing, a new way of processing what we believe is the truth of a thing, especially when, deep down inside, we know otherwise. It is the ego that tells us to keep on fighting to be right because we have to change the way that other people think in order for us to feel better about anything at all.
It is not that easy to change your way of thinking, not when you have it in you to continue to be an ass hat about some things, and not when you think that other people have to do what you expected them to do on your behalf. We can no sooner change what other people believe or how they feel about anything. We can only change the way that we feel and can only change our own attitude about things. THIS TAKES TIME AND A LOT OF PRACTICE. The practice part comes to us in the manner that is other people disagreeing with us and not being in favor of our ways if our ways and our beliefs do not match their end result. When people begin to realize that it is not the end result that matters as much as what it took anyone to get to those results is when we will realize that all along we were not all within our own right-mindedness, not anywhere near outside of the whims of the ego's belief that who we are, what we want, what we do...basically anything, really...depends on what someone else does that we feel they should be doing for US rather than what we do for our very selves.
When people do not agree with what we know is best for ourselves, and they forget that there are other people on the planet and they do not recognize that maybe what it is that they are doing is seriously going about things in the wrong manner and with only the ego's wants, needs and desires (or perhaps what the ego believes what those things are...I promise, cookies...it is not what you want or what your ego thinks it wants but what is BEST FOR ALL PARTIES INVOLVED...reread that...wait...I will write it again for you in terms that anyone with half a brain can understand.....YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU FIRST AND WITHOUT YOUR EGO GETTING IN THE WAY EVEN IF WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO AND MORE, WHAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH SEEMS TO SUCK...there....get it now?).
We...me...you...that guy over there who always seems like he has his finger up his nose....we ALL need to take heed to the idea that our lives are colored by our attitudes. Our lives are made up of all the same things, but it is our perception of our lives and what we think about it in terms of our attitude toward the things happening within the confines of "ourselves" that makes us be constantly negative or positive, that makes us believe that if we don't have this, that or the other in our lives that our lives with suck. It rarely occurs to us that maybe the thing that we think we need so much was only meant to be there as a lesson, only there to bring to the surface what needs to be learned by us and was only there temporarily. NOW, you can take this in any manner and you can think that I am pointing at you directly and revealing to the world the very unquiet sins that you don't realize you are giving to us all, or you can knock your crap off and take a good, longer than normal look at yourself and realize, right now, that it has been YOU who has been torturing you and not someone else. (Yup...I said it - DEAL WITH IT)
It is your attitude that makes people love you or want nothing to do with you. It is the weightiness of the expectations of things that you have already attached yourself to that is making you feel like you do at this moment and NOT NOT NOT anyone else. It is your attitude about things and your own chosen inability to NOT see things from someone else's point of view that makes you hurt. It is you who is directing all of this energy outward through your own attitude. Our attitude is based in our ego, believe it or not, because our ego (rising sign in astrology) is our "game face' and is what the world sees us as an offering to it of who and what we really are.
"...but Rox...why is this so? Why are you picking on me? WHY? WHY? WHY?"
...yeah yeah...oh woe is you...I ain't pickin' on you, but you are the only one who really feels that way. When someone else points out what is our trip and what is makin' us trip out about a lot of things, it is at that point when you might want to do like I suggest and check yourself before you wreck yourself. No one thinks about it when they are in mid-ego driven dog crap mode that the desired outcome that you alone have super-glued yourself and your attitude to is what is making you nutty, is making you feel like you have to manipulate and coerce and do things that may or may not make things better, thereby leaving you, your ego and your soul open and vulnerable to whatever it is that you think you will not get. What you will not get, if you continue to attach yourself the the outcome that you want versus the outcome that is needed is what this blog is about...okay, it is actually about the way that your perception of things is making you have a crappy attitude about things. Keep reading...
When we loan our own negative energies to things and we think that what we see at the end of our lessons is what it is that we will end up with, and we attach ourselves to it, and it doesn't happen the way that we pushed for it to happen is when our attitude changes for the worse. It takes more than only one time for us to encounter as many "duh moments" that we encounter that we end up experiencing and which breaks us down and makes us look at who we have been in relation to what is going on at any given moment. The way that we perceive what is happening, and the way that we allow our ego to "protect" us (making us look like jack asses in the process when we are not able to let things go and LEARN) is shown to the world as our attitude, or, our game face (again, rising sign in astrology...grow up - we are not only all about our sun signs, Loves...not at all...wanna know more? HIT ME UP!).
If this blog post seems a little more filled with my actual attitude, I promise, you are better at this learning thing that you think you are...my proof is that you can feel me coming through at ya loud, like so many guitar riffs comin' at ya live through the speakers in your Soul.
Yup...it's like that, really. Change your attitude about things. Detach yourself from the outcome that you want and allow the better outcome to be yours. If you change your attitude and you allow it and not your freakin' big fat ego to be who and what guides you, you can't lose.
In fact, your outcome might be better than you expected. You might find out that what you thought you wanted was only a symbol of the actuality and that the perceived outcome cannot compare to what you have in reality.
What you have in reality is You...and no one can touch that.
Only You
I LOVE YOU ALL !!
ROX
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Monday, October 15, 2012
This time is meant for stopping and smelling the roses...
When we see our lives unfolding as they are meant to, it is wise to Be in our Lives as much as possible, not to try to get more than we already have, but simply and only to appreciate what is already there for us.
Too many of us whose lives and life's work are connected to the Spiritual side of Life like to go out into this world and tell people that what we want we can have, that what we need we already have, and that it is easy for us if we just focus. What we are not so great at, at least a lot of us, is knowing what we want is ours, is in manifest, and is everything that we hope for it to be, but also that what we want requires that we be willing to allow it to Become what it is meant to be.
We want to behave as though we have the answers for everyone when a lot of the time we do not even have those answers for ourselves! And we have the nerve to believe that we think we know what is best for everyone else. We don't. When we are given a situation that we must get ourselves through and that situation is markedly rife with pain and heartache the only thing that we can see is that pain and that heartache. While we know that if we stepped back and thought more about the entirety of a thing rather than only our tiny piece of that thing that what would happen is we would be shown symbolically where we are at, we want to see the evidence of our growth, of our thoughts, and the manifestation of our Desires right there in our face and we want to see it NOW...
What, did you forget that there was going to be work involved in this?
No one likes to work, no one. We like to think that what we do for a living as being just a part of our lives and not truly a part of our Path.(It is...no, really...but that is for the other blog). We want to believe that the Law of Attraction works like a magic genie in a bottle when truly it is more you and your energy and the work put into that manifestation that brings it all into form. Do not take truly and as truth that you get what you want just like that. You do not. I do not. We will not, because always there is a lesson contained within it. We might be seeking answers that require our involvement being much bigger than what we thought. When the energy which we think is meant as someone else's lesson about thing is all our own, and when we think we are the ones who is teaching anyone anything, ultimately we find out that what we were doing was reflecting off of other people that energy that belongs to us and more than that, we are being given what we asked for and lots of times we do not even realize it.
...we do not even realize it...
If it is that we have been desirous of a thing or a situation, we do not know it until we are in the middle of it that we are learning about ourselves and what it is that our Soul needs. Our Ego needs way too much for our human beingness to be able to help it or satiate it. Our Ego serves us with the lesson that we need, and our Soul is the part of us that is rewarded for those lessons. When we are able to deal with a thing, when we can accept what it is about ourselves that we see in someone else, no matter what it is and no matter if we want to believe it, when it materializes for us that is when we find out what we are energetically made of. Collectively we have all asked for some rest, and when we did so we did so with the intention in mind that what we wanted to have in our lives we wanted to also have a sense of permanence to it. Things that require the involvement of other people at deeper levels than only what we see are the things that we most need to accept, to learn about, to understand how it relates to our lives singly and collectively, and then we need to trust that what we are seeing in front of our eyes physically is a manifestation of what it is that we have felt within our Souls for a lot longer than we care to believe.
And belief is part of the Stopping and the Smelling of the proverbial roses in this whole Spiritual adventure we are all on.
Stop to smell the roses without the fear that you are somehow going to get stung by the slings and arrows of what might happen...
Am I the only person who thinks that people should be less afraid of what might happen? I know all about this demon....the one that tells us that we should get ourselves prepared, "just in case." My friend Melody Fletcher, who is the creator of the Deliberate Receiving Blog, tells us in one of her blogs that when we prep ourselves for the worst that we should expect the worst because already in our minds we have created that thought that tells us things are going to go badly and that since we are such "smart" humans that we had better prepare for it all or else we might get our heart broken again over something...something that would not have turned out badly had we just opted to go with the flow of things and let them happen rather than prepping ourselves for that one thing to not happen the way it needs to.
I won't lie about it, but I do this a lot still, and I know the meaning of stopping to smell the roses in my life, and Melody is RIGHT !!
I know now that I have to just let things blossom, that if I want to see what I am most Desirous of in every area of my Life, I have to go with my gut instead of my rationale, have to believe it before I see it, and I know that doing things this way also prompts me to ponder certain evidences that tell me things, that give me my answers, that make it known that what I truly Desire the most is absolutely Becoming and is Becoming in a way that not even my own Piscean ability to dig into something deeply to analyze what is before me - and any good, well-learned Piscean will tell you that when we do like Pisces are meant to...which is to be a good Fish and swim with the flow instead of being like a Salmon trying to swim upstream against the Flow of Life. When we choose to "go with the flow" we find a grandness of Soul in the little things, in the things that, if we bothered to look a bit more closely at them, would show us the smaller yet vitally important pieces of the thing that is in manifest.
ALL parts of who we are depend on our being able to ponder our own magnificence, even if that magnificence is contained in the not-so-magnificent. When we see a thing as always Being Whole but also as constantly Evolving into the Most Highest Best that that thing or situation our limited thinking can handle, that is when we Know, too, that whatever it is that is in manifest for us that is taking what we want to call as being its "sweet time," is Being Created for Us in the very most wonderful way that we human beings cannot figure out with our own limited human thinking. When we can let go of what it is that we see with our minds eyes as being permanently as it is, that is when the magic happens for us because that said same magic happens within us and changes us ...permanently.
So when you are ready to blow a gasket, or ready to have words with someone over what it is that our Ego is pretending is the most important thing about something, stop for a moment and think about just how large the size of the thing or the situation is that we are intending and accordingly deal with it from that perspective.
When we can see our thoughts and the Desires of our Souls as being as valuable in manifest as we know we will see them when they have actually manifested, then is when we will actually feel as though it is on its way, no matter what it is. When we have a clue about a thing and when we can accept that we only know about it what we know about it and that we do not know the entirety of the thought or the thing, that is when we have begun the process of the slow yet sweet manifestation of the dreams residing within our Souls and the heartbeat and more, the Promise which is only that which is Universal Love.
Stop and smell the roses, guys...I promise you won't get stung!
I Love You All!!
ROX
Reverend Roxanne Cottell is the Kumu Hula and Creator of the Spiritual Hula Program for Women and the Co-Founder of Na Hula O Ka Wahine 'Ui. She is a blogger, book author, choreographer and Spiritual Adviser. To contact Roxanne for information about the Spiritual Hula Program for Women or information regarding private hula or Spiritual Guidance sessions with her feel free to send her an email.
(c) 2012 Roxanne K. Cottell. All Rights Reserved.
Too many of us whose lives and life's work are connected to the Spiritual side of Life like to go out into this world and tell people that what we want we can have, that what we need we already have, and that it is easy for us if we just focus. What we are not so great at, at least a lot of us, is knowing what we want is ours, is in manifest, and is everything that we hope for it to be, but also that what we want requires that we be willing to allow it to Become what it is meant to be.
We want to behave as though we have the answers for everyone when a lot of the time we do not even have those answers for ourselves! And we have the nerve to believe that we think we know what is best for everyone else. We don't. When we are given a situation that we must get ourselves through and that situation is markedly rife with pain and heartache the only thing that we can see is that pain and that heartache. While we know that if we stepped back and thought more about the entirety of a thing rather than only our tiny piece of that thing that what would happen is we would be shown symbolically where we are at, we want to see the evidence of our growth, of our thoughts, and the manifestation of our Desires right there in our face and we want to see it NOW...
What, did you forget that there was going to be work involved in this?
No one likes to work, no one. We like to think that what we do for a living as being just a part of our lives and not truly a part of our Path.(It is...no, really...but that is for the other blog). We want to believe that the Law of Attraction works like a magic genie in a bottle when truly it is more you and your energy and the work put into that manifestation that brings it all into form. Do not take truly and as truth that you get what you want just like that. You do not. I do not. We will not, because always there is a lesson contained within it. We might be seeking answers that require our involvement being much bigger than what we thought. When the energy which we think is meant as someone else's lesson about thing is all our own, and when we think we are the ones who is teaching anyone anything, ultimately we find out that what we were doing was reflecting off of other people that energy that belongs to us and more than that, we are being given what we asked for and lots of times we do not even realize it.
...we do not even realize it...
If it is that we have been desirous of a thing or a situation, we do not know it until we are in the middle of it that we are learning about ourselves and what it is that our Soul needs. Our Ego needs way too much for our human beingness to be able to help it or satiate it. Our Ego serves us with the lesson that we need, and our Soul is the part of us that is rewarded for those lessons. When we are able to deal with a thing, when we can accept what it is about ourselves that we see in someone else, no matter what it is and no matter if we want to believe it, when it materializes for us that is when we find out what we are energetically made of. Collectively we have all asked for some rest, and when we did so we did so with the intention in mind that what we wanted to have in our lives we wanted to also have a sense of permanence to it. Things that require the involvement of other people at deeper levels than only what we see are the things that we most need to accept, to learn about, to understand how it relates to our lives singly and collectively, and then we need to trust that what we are seeing in front of our eyes physically is a manifestation of what it is that we have felt within our Souls for a lot longer than we care to believe.
And belief is part of the Stopping and the Smelling of the proverbial roses in this whole Spiritual adventure we are all on.
Stop to smell the roses without the fear that you are somehow going to get stung by the slings and arrows of what might happen...
Am I the only person who thinks that people should be less afraid of what might happen? I know all about this demon....the one that tells us that we should get ourselves prepared, "just in case." My friend Melody Fletcher, who is the creator of the Deliberate Receiving Blog, tells us in one of her blogs that when we prep ourselves for the worst that we should expect the worst because already in our minds we have created that thought that tells us things are going to go badly and that since we are such "smart" humans that we had better prepare for it all or else we might get our heart broken again over something...something that would not have turned out badly had we just opted to go with the flow of things and let them happen rather than prepping ourselves for that one thing to not happen the way it needs to.
I won't lie about it, but I do this a lot still, and I know the meaning of stopping to smell the roses in my life, and Melody is RIGHT !!
I know now that I have to just let things blossom, that if I want to see what I am most Desirous of in every area of my Life, I have to go with my gut instead of my rationale, have to believe it before I see it, and I know that doing things this way also prompts me to ponder certain evidences that tell me things, that give me my answers, that make it known that what I truly Desire the most is absolutely Becoming and is Becoming in a way that not even my own Piscean ability to dig into something deeply to analyze what is before me - and any good, well-learned Piscean will tell you that when we do like Pisces are meant to...which is to be a good Fish and swim with the flow instead of being like a Salmon trying to swim upstream against the Flow of Life. When we choose to "go with the flow" we find a grandness of Soul in the little things, in the things that, if we bothered to look a bit more closely at them, would show us the smaller yet vitally important pieces of the thing that is in manifest.
ALL parts of who we are depend on our being able to ponder our own magnificence, even if that magnificence is contained in the not-so-magnificent. When we see a thing as always Being Whole but also as constantly Evolving into the Most Highest Best that that thing or situation our limited thinking can handle, that is when we Know, too, that whatever it is that is in manifest for us that is taking what we want to call as being its "sweet time," is Being Created for Us in the very most wonderful way that we human beings cannot figure out with our own limited human thinking. When we can let go of what it is that we see with our minds eyes as being permanently as it is, that is when the magic happens for us because that said same magic happens within us and changes us ...permanently.
So when you are ready to blow a gasket, or ready to have words with someone over what it is that our Ego is pretending is the most important thing about something, stop for a moment and think about just how large the size of the thing or the situation is that we are intending and accordingly deal with it from that perspective.
When we can see our thoughts and the Desires of our Souls as being as valuable in manifest as we know we will see them when they have actually manifested, then is when we will actually feel as though it is on its way, no matter what it is. When we have a clue about a thing and when we can accept that we only know about it what we know about it and that we do not know the entirety of the thought or the thing, that is when we have begun the process of the slow yet sweet manifestation of the dreams residing within our Souls and the heartbeat and more, the Promise which is only that which is Universal Love.
Stop and smell the roses, guys...I promise you won't get stung!
I Love You All!!
ROX
Reverend Roxanne Cottell is the Kumu Hula and Creator of the Spiritual Hula Program for Women and the Co-Founder of Na Hula O Ka Wahine 'Ui. She is a blogger, book author, choreographer and Spiritual Adviser. To contact Roxanne for information about the Spiritual Hula Program for Women or information regarding private hula or Spiritual Guidance sessions with her feel free to send her an email.
(c) 2012 Roxanne K. Cottell. All Rights Reserved.
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